She replied that she just wasn't ready for a relationship and that she was sorry she had hurt me and that it'd turned out like this. Although to be honest, I don't think she was really sorry or that she even cared all that much. I still feel kind of used and abused in a way - good for making her come and making her feel good on her bad days, but cast aside like a paper towel when she gets a new job and has a little scare about her self-worth. Sorry didn't mean to kiss and tell there, but truly, obviously it was a gift that I got out now before I found out she couldn't be in a relationship rather than if we were married or living together.
Although she didn't specifically say that she didn't want to be with me any more, I'm not prepared to wait for what is obviously going to be a very long time before she's ready for a relationship. I can see when a relationship has drifted south and even in my limited experience I knew that there was no changing that. It's a real shame because we both loved each other and we could've been really good together. Personally, she put up too many obstacles to move through and I don't think she really wanted us to succeed. So I sent an email back saying that it was obviously over between us and tried to end it in the nicest way possible.
I guess I was hoping for the whole "No, we can make this work! I love you so much" response from her (there's been no response yet) but I'm guessing that wont be it if there is even a response from her. I just feel so emotionally drained. I was in a mall today and didn't even feel like trying for the girls there. Honestly, I can't be bothered with girls at the moment. All that revealing myself to Vikki and forming a relationship with her - it's just so draining to have to start all over again that I really can't be blowed to do all that again right now. Even if the perfect girl was delivered to me on a silver platter I would still probably say no. Heck, it'd probably be easier just to turn gay. I really am done with girls right now.
I'm just so scared that I won't find anyone else like her. Or even anyone else just to put up with me. What if I'm scarred now? I mean, I'm already finding it hard opening up to other people - I find myself reserving myself more and more with new people. And I'm sad because this is it. Our relationship is over. There's not going back, no turning around. For the rest of my life I will never see her again or know her. I won't know if she's happy. Won't know if she regrets losing me. Won't know if she's even alive or dead or where she's going or been. Like a line being cut forever, it's just gone. I always get upset about people who come into my life and then leave and this is no exception.
Well, for me it looks like a lonely road for a while. I'm actually looking forward to just cutting out all that clutter of relationships and girls and just focussing on myself. My art, my hobbies and doing things which will make me feel great. I know that before I'd usually say that it would be nice to have someone to share it with, but honestly right now, I couldn't feel anything farther from it. A bachelor's time for me my dears and it's going to be great (hopefully...). I just hope I don't turn into one of those chauvinistic bastards which get too used to a bachelor's life, but knowing me, I wont (again, hopefully...).
Meh, I think I worry to much. Time for some rest and relaxation. Wish me luck.
Oh and by the way, food poisoning absolutely sucks. Don't ever eat rice from a delicatessen. It sucks...
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